I don’t dress in a way that appeals to men (sexy, cute, very feminine) although I know those there’s no limit to what those degenerates will sexualise. So I mostly dress in modest clothing or clothes that make me look dykey (which I am) . I try to look taller and intimidating by wearing boots that can stomp balls and go for what’s practical (slacks, baggy pants, comfy jeans) if I am ever in a situation where I need to run or fight them off. I only let my guard down and dress slightly feminine (no heels and makeup whatsoever, just dresses and skirts) if I’m hanging with female friends or a girlfriend where I know there’s not going to be a lot of males around. I actually loved dressing up but being a radfem and being in quarantine has made me realise a lot of feminine stuff I was “into” was merely conditioning and self policing. I gave up shaving, make up, and looking “hot” within months. I still like and wear certain jewellery from smaller female owned businesses, anything that doesn’t serve the men on top.