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Personal Expereinces Transwomen Thread- Anonymous 07/06/2020 (Mon) 01:13:47 No. 1178
I thought it'd be cool to have a thread where we just talk about our personal experiences with transwomen/people. How it shaped our views, or even if you have a friend,family member,spouse or ex-spouse story to share. If you need to vent about someone. If you want advice on how to deal with something or a situation. It does not have to be negative or hateful, but a place to vent, maybe give some advice or just share a story. Good, bad, indifferent, I think we need a space for this, especially since on Lolcow I've been seeing a few posts about experiences with trans people or trans allies. (sorry for my shitty english)
i don't have many stories but there was a tim that lived a few houses down from me that multiple times mistook me and my car for his uber. i later found out he was an escort. can't say that i'm shocked that basically every experience online or irl with them shows them to be obsessed with objectifying themselves. i don't live in a bad area so he must've been making decent money at it, or what's honestly more likely is that he was probably a backend developer that moonlit as a prostitute for funsies/validation, as is often the case.
I once recognized a MTF from Twitter at the local Apple store and shook hands. The other time I was travelling and talked with a FTM without recognizing that it was the case until they told me; it was assumed I was homosexual.
Sadly most of these are Discord related lol 1) Was in a call with one for the first time ever, my first vocal interaction but I didn't want to call him she. I tried to call him by his name or use them and you when reffering to him. Kept slipping up because turns out if you sound male my instinct is to go "he" and he went "Who do you mean by HE?" in a really hostile tone so I just left the call. 2) Had one slide into my dms, at first it was ok because we were talking about video games but then they kept sending selfies asking if they looked hot. At fitst I was all, "you look fine dw" and switched the topic but then he started sending selfies of him wearing diapers and other abdl gear so I blocked him. 3) Met a FTM on some fandom server. She actually wasn't that bad but one time she talked about using a toothbrush to masturbate in a public channel kek 4) In highschool there was this really popular kid, very tall skinny and hyper. We were in the same math class and one of the students made a joke about transexuals but then the popular kid went "You know I'M trans right?" and the other kid kept going "Are you sure? Damn. Really? Noo..." and honestly I thought the same because they had man hands and a adams apple but also a really feminine face and super high pitched voice. It didn't help this kid was usually known to joke around a lot too, but they seemed pretty serious. To this day I'm still not sure. 5) Knew someone who ended up trooning out IRL and told me that I'm not really a woman, that I am just hyperfeminine so by that logic transwomen are women because of the way they act and he was one too. If I wear pants or act like a slob, it made me a man and that also applied to him, he didn't want to live like that. Such a fucking insult, everything in life happened because I'm a woman but can't beat those mental gymnastics.
I was in a LGBTQ+ online support group years ago. There were 3 transwomen and 2 trans men and the rest were gay/lesbians and the odd bisexual. - There was this trans women who was obessed with straight men and constantly posting videos on their facebook about how much men loved transwomen women. They went on a long rant about why they'd never date a man who dated transwomen or men, that ticked off a transbien in the group and they got in a stupid agrument. They once got in a agrument with a girl on twitter, told them they could take their man, then commented on the Bf's picture and he called them a "Mentally ill tranny" and they got them banned from twitter. This person detransed last I checked. - There was a transwomen who started off as a gay man, then became a "Straight" transwomen and then came out as bisexual. Then finally a lesbian. They only dated transwomen/men so basically it was a gay guy who went through four sexualities all of them were him having homosexual sex. I hope that dude figured it out. - a trans escort joined the group briefly, they kept posting pictures of themselves and everyone would go out there way to compliment them. A few trans women were constantly throwing jabs about how they didn't have the money to "Pass" and it was hurting their self esteem. The escort was always telling "true stories" about all the rappers they'd fucked or dated, no one believed it but I found it funny. They DID tell a very detailed story about fucking Ch*rlie Sh*en that I kind of believed. They left a group but the detrans girl, told me that the transgirl was "grooming" them into escorting with them, Telling them "Asian transwomen are very popular" and even introduced them to a trans porn star online who was trying to get them to do transporn. I do miss the group because there were some very nice people in it, outside of all the drama.
>>1184 >4) In highschool there was this really popular kid, very tall skinny and hyper. We were in the same math class and one of the students made a joke about transexuals but then the popular kid went "You know I'M trans right?" and the other kid kept going "Are you sure? Damn. Really? Noo..." and honestly I thought the same because they had man hands and a adams apple but also a really feminine face and super high pitched voice. It didn't help this kid was usually known to joke around a lot too, but they seemed pretty serious. To this day I'm still not sure. You got to admit that's a pretty cool way to speak up.
My first experience was with this MTF trans woman that presented as homeless and mentally ill. I was at the bus stop of my community college reading with my headphones in. they insisted on speaking to me so i gave in and took my headphones off. they spoke strangely and said that they were growing their hair and nails out because they were becoming a woman. i felt really bad for them but tried to keep it upbeat since they seemed really emotionally fragile. they were balding and had dirt under their nails. a friend i told this story to said that this person used to harass all the little girls in her neighborhood about how they were transitioning. i don't think they were actually homeless just mentally ill with poor hygiene. The only other time i had a conversation irl with a trans person was one my college friend was dating that transitioned after they had an established relationship. Myself and our mutual male roommate from college went to stay the weekend with them and chill sometime after graduating. I was the only one of our roommates that was into anime and they would ask me for recommendations all the time. so my female college friend tells her MTF gf this and they promptly ignore it and proceed to exclude me from all of her questions about the subject the entire weekend. They exclusively talk to our male roommate about it even though he has only seen when i told him to watch. He would tell them that I knew more about anime but that was ignored also. really rude and strange. i know my female college friend had been in open relationships before so i don't know if she wanted our male college roommate to join them an i was in the way or they just decided they wanted to mean girl me for whatever reason.
I've only met 3 TIMs as far as I can remember. 2 of them were pleasant and seemed to genuinely just be dysphoric but otherwise normal people. The other one works in a local shop and seems like a classic agp. I heve only come across him very briefly 3 times or something though, so I've never had to deal with any bullshit from him. Then I've met 2 NBs. One is a girl who's super sweet and seem to identify as NB because of trauma. I really hope she doesn't start taking hormones or get surgery. The other was an absolutely obnoxious dude from a school I went to. He always had to be the center of attention and ALWAYS knew best about everything regarding philosophy and sociology. He was also super insecure. I disagreed with and argued against him ONCE in friendly, playful and not at all antagonising way, won the "argument", and after that he seemed legitimately scared of me kek.


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